1)
WHAT IS SEX?
The word sex mean different things to different people, sex is
an enjoyable activity that is very healthy and meaningful. The way a gay see
sex is different from that of a lesbian or bisexual. Sex refers to all act that
can sexually arouse someone. Sex is more than just sexual intercourse, it also
include such things like kissing, caressing, and oral sex. Sex is something you
do that makes you achieve orgasm. Sex is not all about the techniques, it is
also important to pay attention to the feelings and thoughts of your sex
partner. It can also be said that sex is the coming together of two people
where a feeling of erotic excitement between the partners is felt and pleasure
is derived at last.

2) WHAT IS MARRIAGE? Marriage
is the coming together of two people. Marriage is the relationship between two
people that are married. Marriage is a legal binding or sanctioned contract
between a man and a woman, it is the civil status of a man and a woman united
in law for life and nothing come in between them except death. Hence with the
above definitions above comes our topic SEX IN MARRIAGE.
3) SEX IN MARRIAGE is that right and duty married couple owe
themselves. It is mandatory for all married couple to have sex thereby creating
a bond between them. Some go into marriage for sex but it is advisable that sex
should not be a motive for going into marriage. Sex in marriage is when married
couple come together to have sexual intercourse in which kissing, caressing,
and oral sex, if the above mentioned is done outside marriage , it is not
advisable.
4)
WHO SHOULD HAVE SEX? Sex outside marriage is not advisable has been said
because it could lead to sexually transmitted infections (sti), unwanted
pregnancy, and other diseases. Researches have been carried out that 70% of
teenagers have sex, and about 25% have sex at about ¾ times a week, and this
have given rise to birth rate, infections, and increase in population, so it is
advisable and mandatory that only married couple should have sex within the marriage
and not partners cheating.
5)
RELEVANCE OF SEX IN MARRIAGE:
Sex is good, sex is sweet and sex is very important in marriage. A marriage without
sex is bound to face a marital problem which is never advisable as a
relationship expert. You might be thinking sex is just to satisfy that
emotional feeling but I put it to you is far more than that. The relevance of
sex include:
a)
It
creates a bond between couples. For the fact that both of you have seen your
nakedness is enough reason to be closer than just neighbors.
b)
When
you have sex you feel emotionally relax and partners have sex together they
become emotionally satisfied.
c)
To
men it makes them feel relax when stressed up
d)
To
women it makes them feel special and
loved by their partner
e)
Sex
is important in the aspect of reproduction(making babies)
f)
Sex
has been recommended for a healthy living. Sex removes calories, reduces high
blood pressure which will make one live longer
g)
Sex
can be a form of exercise for both partners.
h)
If
you make love with your partner, you feel important, special, and great about
yourself.
i)
Sex
in marriage can erase cheating as both partner look for ways and styles to satisfy
themselves
j)
Sex
can bring a higher level of communication that you can normally do with just
anyone
k)
Sex
creates passion and a unique connection among
partners
Read also: Married couple and third party
6)
RIGHT TIME TO HAVE SEX: There is no specific time to have sex in marriage.
Sex is a feeling that comes for you to achieve orgasm, and when that feeling
dies off then sex becomes boring so we can say the right time to have sex is
the time you feel like it and not a specific time, for example we must have sex
every 4pm or every 2am daily. There are other times you feel like sex will be
enjoyed but when you decide to get started you find it boring and the other
time you feel sex will be awkward, you will enjoy it more, so what am saying is
that there is no best time to have sex, have sex when you feel like it, it will
make you enjoy every bit of it. Research have been carried out though that sex
is best enjoyed at late night or early hours of the morning. When you have sex
at late night it makes you sleep well and a relaxed muscle, when you have sex
at early morning, it prepares you for the daily routine. When you have sex you
tend to have an undeniable joy within you, but have it in mind that be it
afternoon, late night, or early hours of the morning, if you don’t feel like
it, you won’t enjoy it. So have fun anytime, sex is a natural thing and natural
thing are beautiful things.
7)
WHO ENJOYS SEX MORE: in relationships I mean marriages, I
have done my researches and come to conclusion that women enjoys sex more than
the men. Sexual pleasure intercourse between partner is enjoyed by both partner
but never forget that a donut will have more nerve endings than a sausage which
makes it more sensitive to touch when compare to a sausage and more vulnerable
cling and to the next point , the span of orgasm is longer in women than in men, an average woman will have
orgasm for 15-22 seconds which is higher when compared to a man who will
experience it for 5-9 seconds. Women will have cherries(you know what I mean)
on their donuts which is sensitive zone in their body and men don’t have any
like it. Compare to men, women have more trigger points on their body, so all
this subjective things will make women enjoy sex than men.
In conclusion sex without marriage is like
a looking for a pen thrown into an ocean, in other to get the best out of your marriage
you have to guarantee your partner maximum satisfaction sexually. Sort for ways
to please your partner sexually at the highest peak of it and I guarantee you a
successful marriage. Sex is a wide topic that needs development from time to
time, other areas not explained by the writer will be developed in the nearest
time as more research is been carried out. It include:
a)
Causes of unsatisfied sex
b)
Steps to take to enjoy your partner during
sex
c)
Dangers of unsatisfied sex in marriage
d)
Sex positions
FRANKLIN
NATHANEAL,
WRITER
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