10 Frequently Asked Question about Relationship and Marriages(video included)

                            Questions on Relationship and Marriages

 There are so many questions people ask TheFranklinsblog in the cause of carrying out a research which they say has been a burden to them on how to run their relationship and marriage. These frequently asked questions on relationship and marriage can also be of benefits to those who are yet to enter into relationships/marriages because it will serve as a guide for living a successful and blissful married life. Here are few of the questions recently asked and possible answers to them. Read on….

1(1)    MUST I MARRY FROM MY TRIBE OR STATE?: if you are prepared for a relationship or love has caught up with you and possibly go into marriage then you should consider falling in love with someone really from your heart and not just because of tribe/state.
READ ALSO: RELATIONSHIP: RACE SHOULDN’T BE A PROBLEM. You can close your heart against any person that is not from your tribe or state and choose to marry your tribe but I can boldly tell you, when love comes, tribe or state will not be an issue.

2)    CAN THERE BE A PERFECT PARTNER?: Everyone here on earth is not born perfect but we can work unto perfection. As long as we human still feel pain in our heart (emotionally) and skin (physically) then we are bound to do something below been perfect, but a person can be so good to you that you think he/she is an angel sent by God specially for you. It is all about love, understanding, and the ability to do things right.

READ ALSO: RELATIONSHIP: UNDERSTAND YOUR PARTNER

3)    IS THERE A REWARD FOR BEEN A VIRGIN UNTO MARRIAGE?: Yes, everything in life has a reward good or bad, right or wrong. In the case of been a virgin its price is very rewarding. When you are a virgin:

a) It attracts good name

b) It makes you proud of yourself

 c) You gain respect among family members

d) You enjoy your partner in bed.

d) It keeps and makes you safer than those who have regular sex

e) It puts a value beyond price on you

4)    IF I HAVE A FIGHT WITH MY PARTNER WHO SHOULD APOLOGISE? At the normal level anyone who offends a person should apologise, so if you offend your partner and your partner is grieved, the next step to take is to render apology to your partner, never feel too big to apologise, as a matter of fact if you can’t apologise to your partner then you should be regarded as a proud and careless person who don’t think about other people’s feeling. Your partner is your life time and soul mate if is angry with you are you comfortable with, definitely NO, in order for love and peace to reign be quick to apologise and try as much as possible to limit the way you offend your partner. DON’T OVERLOOK AND SAY HE/SHE IS YOUR PARTNER AND THERE IS NO NEED TO APOLOGISE

5)    I AND MY PARTNER ALWAYS HAVE FIGHTS IN THE HOME, WHAT IS THE SOLUTION: You are the solution to your problem relating to this question. Having discovered yourself and need a solution to your fights, what you should do is to ask yourself these questions:

a)     What have you done wrong?

b)    What pisses him/her off?

c)     What has gone wrong in your relationship?

Having analyze yourself with these definitely there will be a solution.

6)    IF AM THE BREADWINNER IN MY HOME AS THE WOMAN WHAT SHOULD BE MY THOUGHTS AND ACTIONS TO MY HUSBAND?: You are the breadwinner of the home doesn’t make you the head of the home. Your thoughts/actions towards him shouldn’t be negative rather you think of how best to put head together to pull him up, encourage and not to discourage him. Your thoughts and action should be continually be how you can be of help to him and the family rather than complaining, quarrelling or reporting him to people.

7)    IS IT RIGHT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER DURING FASTING?: In my opinion I will say it is right as long as he is your rightful married partner because it is recognized by God. If your pastor also gave you the fasting you should ask for directions and more also you should seek the consent of your partner and also inform him/her before time.

8)    MY PARTNER HAS SOME CERTAIN TRAITS/CHARACTERS I DON’T LIKE, WHAT DO I DO?: Nobody is born perfect, it is who you are that determines what you like. These links below gives you an answer to this question and a better understanding about it. Read thoroughly and put it to work, you are sure to enjoy your relationship in marriage. The links are:

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR PARTNER TO YOUR TASTE

RELATIONSHIP: DROPTHOSE HABITS

10 COMMON RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS AND HOW TO FIX IT

SNORING EFFECTS ANDPOSSIBLE SOLUTIONS

NAGGING EFFECTS IN RELATIONSHIP

9)    AM NO LONGER ATTRACTED TO MY PARTNER, WHAT DO I DO? This is probably because you are now in love or lust with another or he/she has change from the person he/she use to be right from the start of the relationship or you are tired of the relationship(the relationship no longer excites you)

 10)MY HUSBAND IS HAPPIER WHEN CHATTING WITH OTHER LADIES THAN ME: This is probably because:

a) Your communication skill with him is low

b) You pay less attention to him

c) Your value for him as reduced

d) You talk negatively

e) Your discussions with him always end up in quarrel or fights

f) Your discussion with him is based on things that don’t interest him

g) You are dull in words and actions

CONCLUSION: These questions above are the least ten frequently asked questions over numerous. The answers given should also serve as a guideline to your relationship/marital life. The links provided are for better understanding and wider knowledge to your queries and troubling heart questions. So put them to practice and have a wonderful relationship/married life.
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