KNOWING THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A PLAYER AND A GENTLEMAN

THIS IS WHAT YOU SHOULD KNOW BETWEEN A PLAYER AND A GENTLEMAN

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INTRODUCTION: You desire to go into a relationship, ok that’s fine, you now have a crush, that’s pretty good, he is the man of your dreams, wonderful, he is good at making things perfect, that’s brilliant, he is a good teaser, you love that, anytime you see him he is always comfortable, he is very handsome, he speaks pretty good and you think you have met the perfect man, the one you have long dream to have a lifetime with, there is no problem with that, but I should tell you this there are gentlemen and there are players. If you want to distinguish between a gentleman and a player, a gentleman is not all that perfect and put himself the way he is, he tries to
impress you but not with a fake life, he may be sometimes look weak but that’s because he wants to be truthful or honest about himself but a player wants to make you believe he is all perfect, he tries to be good at all the charming characters in order to win a lady/ladies to himself just like in love movies. There are certain things a player will do and a gentleman will not do or just as much as a player and you believe the gentleman is not civilized enough. In this article I am going to enlighten you a bit on the difference between a player who takes his time and a gentleman who is sincere in his doings:

WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN A PLAYER AND A GENTLEMAN?

Having wondering who a player and a gentleman is, the below listed will give you a knowledge about it so you should know that those who you think are gentlemen are actually some sort of players who want to have their way:

1)    A gentleman will always want to impress you and expecting nothing in return while a player will at least expect a kiss or a peck from you. For example you actually go on a date with a gentleman and he buys you a drink or some sorts, he never ask for anything in return, he feels comfortable with you on a date with him while a player will want a kiss or a peck at least on the first date.

2)    A player will look at you couple of times and actually stare at your butts or probably look for where you wore your dress wrongly so he can tell you to adjust it but a player overlooks such and probably might not want to look at you to make you feel un comfortable.

3)    Having a date with a player and exchanging phone numbers, a player may likely not call you back except he is not through with what he wants from you and you at the other end have put so much interest in him.

4)    A gentleman will likely plan dates if he wants to be with you while a player can just send you text.

5)    A gentleman will want to impress you by buying you gifts no matter how small it is but a player will never buy unless he wants something in return and if he does, he has it all planned out to get what he wants from you in no distant time.

6)    A gentleman shows love and care, talk about your problems and sort for ways to solve them while a player mostly pays attention on what he can get from you, and when you bring up matters concerning your past he might pretend to listen but actually not interested.

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7)    Emotions can create intimacy which a player don’t want, a player will never want to get affectionate with you, he is a player with so many girls attached with him so getting attached to you can ruin other girls from coming closer but on the other hand a gentleman who is not expecting anything from you will treat you like a lady you are and not to have you for the night.

8)    It may sound normal to you but it is actually true, a gentleman composes himself well that is have good manners, he actually wants to use them anytime he sees a lady some of which can include opening the car door for you to enter, but a player may never really care.

9)    A gentleman will give you the respect that you deserve, in other words he sees a lady as someone who is very important to his life rather than a player who will call you names of which you can’t be comfortable with like bitch, asshole e.t.c

10)           A player can address you in a wrong way because he is attached or interested in so many girls and you begin to wonder if really he listened to you when you told him your name. What I mean by this is that a player can mistakenly call you Mary when you are Favour.

11)           A player is never satisfied with the attention he gets from you and other ladies, he wants more.

12)           A gentleman will never make jest of you or your mistakes, he thinks making a jest of you will embarrass you and make you feel uncomfortable rather he will look for sensible and matured ways to let you know about it but a player will make fun of you and your mistakes.

13)           Surely, a player is a flirt and will always want to have fun with ladies, if you are dating such guy and you want to let him know about it, I think he will look for excuses to tell and make you feel you are being angry about him and also do not trust him.

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CONCLUSION: In times like this, I think is a little difficult to distinguish between a player and a certified gentleman, but with the help of this article it will be very easy to detect one, once you know the guy around you is a player do not hesitate to throw him out of your life because he is only there to bring you sadness and un stabilize you emotionally after getting what he wants.