Everyone knows that attraction plays a big part in any relationship, and is usually the initial reason we end up starting a new one with someone.
Attraction doesn’t have to be purely physical. In fact, for many people, emotional attraction is just as – if not more – important. There are a huge number of factors that can make any one person attractive.
For example, someone making you laugh, being clever, sharing hobbies and interests, and being kind and compassionate are all things that might make you feel attracted to someone. And these things will be more or less important for different people.
The things that make us not attracted to someone are also interesting to think about. Being stubborn, hot-headed, unkind, selfish, lazy, unambitious – the list of things we don’t look for in a potential mate is just as long.




