I DON'T KNOW WHICH PARTNER TO CHOOSE FOR MARRIAGE
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FROM THE SIDE OF THE WOMEN
Women are species that attract lot’s of male species especially
when they have the beauty and character. A woman that is good enough for marriage
can attract lot’s of toasters both the rich and poor comes to seek their hands
in marriage which leaves the woman with an option to choose but what do you do?
What do you do is who do you choose and leave it’s all about your choice and what you want and looking for in a man, when comparing the READ ALSO: How to choose your right partner men at hand you can dearly see the difference at a desired proportion from there you can choose who you really want, more also in doing this, you have to be very patience as some men can be very deceptive just to win you over and start up their usual character. Now how do i choose a man?
What do you do is who do you choose and leave it’s all about your choice and what you want and looking for in a man, when comparing the READ ALSO: How to choose your right partner men at hand you can dearly see the difference at a desired proportion from there you can choose who you really want, more also in doing this, you have to be very patience as some men can be very deceptive just to win you over and start up their usual character. Now how do i choose a man?
You can
choose your right partner which is the link have just highlighted above in case
you didn’t read that I will explain little of it but it but it is advisable you
do that. The ability to choose is what
you want in a man like have said earlier. First of all you are to ask yourself
what I want in a man:-
1)
Should
he be tall, or short?
2)
Should
he fat or sleek?
3)
Should
he be fair or dark in complexion?
4)
Should
he be hairy or not? and more other questions
But these are just the primary traits you should look out
for. Every woman wants a man who would be loving, caring, romantic, goal
oriented, can take care of the family, having a bright future, humble but some
like those who are rugged and so on, READ ALSO: Questions to ask your partner before marriage so who
to choose or what to do is your kind of person and what you want. In order to
build up a family you would enjoy very well is to make sure the men are
transparent and you can vividly understand each and every one of them
characters and see it goes well with yours. So take your time and don’t just rush
into marriage, if you rush into it, you will definitely rush out of it or it
becomes unbearable for you. So many people go into relationship because of what
they can benefit from it probably riches, fame, sex and so on but that is a bad
mindset for going into relationship. You may feel you have critically look into
your partner and understand him very well but later on he changes his behaviour,
in changing his behaviour it involve seven things it either you change
your behaviour towards him or he is interested in another (cheating), or
probably what made him married you he can no longer get from you. It’s not a
good thing at all to start a marriage with. And more
also the kind of person you are will attract your kind of person, if you want
to marry a righteous person you have to be righteous, if you want to marry an
humble person you should be humble definitely.
So the things you are to do are:-
(1) Know your type or traits and marry
someone of your traits.
(2) Make all of them transparent and
understand the character of each of them. READ ALSO:How to know if your partner truly loves you
(3) Analyze yourself and have a positive character.
(4) You can also try this but it’s very
risky: test the partner for they are the type that can bear with. Test them
with things they dislike and see the reaction of each of them, the one that can
bear you the most is someone who is likely to treat you right.
(5) Another thing you can do is to choose
the man that shows all the habits and characteristics of someone who loves you.
You can also read how to know if your partner truly loves you. in that way you
will enjoy your marriage
(6) Probably you desire a man that can
make you comfortable in life per adventure he loses his wealth, will you still
love him the way you do or possibly quit the relationship and also if he loved
you because of your wealth or beauty and per adventure you lose your wealth or
beauty to one incidence, is he the type that will keep on loving you.
So what you should do is totally
dependent on you. You can say your family wants a particular tribe but you
prefer the other tribe because you love your man, good, tribe shouldn’t be a
necessity in marriage. You are the one who will live with your man not your
family. In fact if you marry the wrong person and start having problems, your
family will be first to criticize you of not be submissive to him, so know what
you want and go for it and please don’t just assume the person who choose loves
you 100% make sure he is not been deceptive but sincere. Now here comes another
big question.
FROM THE SIDE OF MEN:-
We can say men are species that
really know what they want in a woman, they only play deceptive to women they
don’t love and be real to the woman they love. it a man says I have so many
women to choose from but don’t know the particular woman to choose will say
such man is not yet ready for marriage because most men who want to settle down
go for character, beauty or both
So if you know within you that you have those traits of beauty and character, you well win a man’s heart and if you lack those things then you will be used as a deceptive tool (just to use you).men like women who are gentle but not cheap, respectful and poses the quality of a virtuous woman. I can boldly tell you that 80% of men don’t go for women who are well to do 80% of men don’t go for women who are well to do (rich) but give them that woman that can do anything for them they will value so much neglecting any girl/woman with money and lack characters. Men can choose someone who is smart, honest and talkless. As a man you are the head of the home, so you are been responsible to yourself and the family, a man shouldn’t look out for a woman who is rich only infact if a woman is rich it has an advantage but a rich woman without character will be a thorn in your flesh and the home, so if you take the full responsibility of a man in the home, your woman should just be a helping mate to you and such helping mate should be the one who has character I mean good character, just that you have chosen the right person. If you have so many women at your side, you as the man should be able to vividly detect the right person. I know woman can be very deceptive and when you get then into the house, they become another thing in the house so what you should do is to act like you don’t care (A TIP), You don’t love them, and not interested in them and see their response, give each and everyone a task and see who comes up with it faster in that way you will know who really have time for you. in other words, in choosing your partner you have to know what you want in a woman and who is best in handling your home in that way you can choose your right woman. A woman who is beautiful, lovable, can bear virtuous, smart, kind hearten, happy to be with you, proud of you, ready to spend the rest of her life with you, trust you, love your home (family) good in the kitchen, can do your laundry without complain, can be of greater help when you are down and so on. You can’t tell me all women behave equally its not possible, some will lack some good characters towards you, so the one who is sincere and has the highest traits you look for in a woman can be your right partner.
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So if you know within you that you have those traits of beauty and character, you well win a man’s heart and if you lack those things then you will be used as a deceptive tool (just to use you).men like women who are gentle but not cheap, respectful and poses the quality of a virtuous woman. I can boldly tell you that 80% of men don’t go for women who are well to do 80% of men don’t go for women who are well to do (rich) but give them that woman that can do anything for them they will value so much neglecting any girl/woman with money and lack characters. Men can choose someone who is smart, honest and talkless. As a man you are the head of the home, so you are been responsible to yourself and the family, a man shouldn’t look out for a woman who is rich only infact if a woman is rich it has an advantage but a rich woman without character will be a thorn in your flesh and the home, so if you take the full responsibility of a man in the home, your woman should just be a helping mate to you and such helping mate should be the one who has character I mean good character, just that you have chosen the right person. If you have so many women at your side, you as the man should be able to vividly detect the right person. I know woman can be very deceptive and when you get then into the house, they become another thing in the house so what you should do is to act like you don’t care (A TIP), You don’t love them, and not interested in them and see their response, give each and everyone a task and see who comes up with it faster in that way you will know who really have time for you. in other words, in choosing your partner you have to know what you want in a woman and who is best in handling your home in that way you can choose your right woman. A woman who is beautiful, lovable, can bear virtuous, smart, kind hearten, happy to be with you, proud of you, ready to spend the rest of her life with you, trust you, love your home (family) good in the kitchen, can do your laundry without complain, can be of greater help when you are down and so on. You can’t tell me all women behave equally its not possible, some will lack some good characters towards you, so the one who is sincere and has the highest traits you look for in a woman can be your right partner.
WHAT DO I TELL THE OTHERS:- Every man wants someone who will satisfy them 100 percent with trust, love and sincerity and if you can’t assure such man of such (look within your heart)because you love another, please don’t marry him out of pity, what you should tell the others is that you are to marry who you love, trust and can play honest with that you don’t love him much as you love the one you choose. Ask him this questions if I marry you and am not been faithful, honest with you because I love another will you be happy? If I accept you and am not been free or submissive to you will you be happy about it? When we have see and all I could do is to imagine my true love having sex with me rather than you, and you find out will you be happy? can you trust me knowing fully well that I still have access to the person I truly love? If you truly love someone will you rather prefer the person you don’t love? Can you exchange love for pity? These questions and many more you can ask your these men whom you don’t love like other. This is also applicable to men.
CONCLUSION:- So many men/women to choose from
what do I do is a big question that has also made many to marry the wrong
partner READ ALSO: Common Relationship Problems because in one way or the other they have to choose and they end up
choosing the wrong one. With the help of this article you now have a directive
on who to choose among so many men/women and more also a tip of what to ask the
others you don’t choose has been given.
Franklin Nathaneal
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