MY MAN HAS LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER, WHAT DO I DO?

I don’t know how to win my man over another lady. What do I do?

Don't cry, there is a solution

 This is a question that so many people ask frequently due to the increase in the outcome of it that is, it is a rising problem in our modern society how women chases after other men‘s wife or partner just to fulfill their selfish desire which may include sexual desire, creating jealousy among partner wanting to enjoy what she feels the other partner is enjoying. This is a big problem in our society that has reached the level of becoming a menace in relationships and even marriages so in order to overcome this challenge there are certain traits you need to maintain and practice.

It has been discovered women are more much move of a higher number than men let’s say in statistics it will be 60% for women and 40% for men, so in order to maintain your man which is not easy to have one you must maintain this trait and at the same time understand your partner READ ALSO: How To Choose Your Right Partner and know how best to treat him in the right way in the relationship.  Okay, let’s say you have much but your man is in the arms of another woman and you want him back so badly, I have good news for you “It is possible”, the only problem you will have is, you are not patient enough in performing this simple steps that will be discussed below. Probably you are bitter in your heart and thinking of so many genuine ways in order to have your man back, why I say genuine is that, there are other evil ways you can do that which I will not advise you because of the bad outcome.

   The reason you lost your man to the arms of another woman is due to the fact that you have lost what made him stay with you or you stopped showing him the reason of having you as his partner. Look deeply into yourself (Analyze yourself) and think about how you and him have been together then check what has gone missing. Now examine yourself while reading this trait below:

1)    When you newly started as partners or couples your desire for him was like “There’s no one to be compared to him” but right now do you still desire him? so have that urge, feel and his need presence like you ever did that way you can bring him back to yourself.

2)    The reason you lost him to another woman is probably because your respect for him has diminished, you no longer see him as the head over all in the relationship. You now talk to him in the manner you like consciously or unconsciously and believes he is not taking note of it Show him maximum genuine respect in trying to win him over to yourself.

3)    Some men are the type that doesn’t like a woman who always adapt to whatever he says to you whether comfortable with you or not. They like people who can express their feelings and try as much as possible to let their men know what they want. Yes they might think you are being disrespectful but later on a sense of reasoning will come into their mind as they will see you as a person that knows herself very well and want his good.

4)    In trying to win your man, fashion (good looking) is very important. A man doesn’t like a lady who is dirty and unkept. Probably when you were with him you leave your hair untidy, clothes having odour, and so on. In trying to win him over, make sure you are the changed type he wants you to be.

5)    If you want to win your man over, you must be nice to him and not just to him but also to the girl. In doing so, you are showing yourself as being responsible, they might actually know your purpose of treating them nice is to win him over but never mind continue with the habit.

6)    Re-establish contact this is very important for those who want to get their man back to themselves, if you can’t re-establish contact, theirs is no way you can get him back. In re-establishing contact, you need to have his contacts (phone number) and possibly know his address in which you can use to frequently reach thereby creating a relationship between you and also removing every distance, gap between both of you.

7)    Text him occasionally and don’t bombard him with unnecessary text. making it easier for you, you can send lovely, caring text messages and also remind him of how good both of you were before things turn around and also make it clear to him your attitudes and promises to show the best part of you to him.

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8)    You can also take this step by focusing on becoming his friend again. What you need do is to renew your mindset, make every bit of your presence with him feel like you just met him, look at him as your close friend am sure you know how to look someone as your close friend, in that way you are sure to win his heart again.

9)    Another way you can win your man is to let him know how you feel about him. All you need do is to express yourself, I mean every bit of it and let him know that all that happened was a mistake and you really involved him to come back to your life. Let him know that he is so special to you and he is all you need in a relationship.

1           Now everything you are going to do above require patience I mean eat patience. You can just start performing those this above and expect magic to happen, it will take time and you have to be patience about it and more also encourage him to take time, don’t expect him to take quick response. In fact trying to force him to take quick actions can give him  the feelings that you are up to something negative.

11)    Like I said earlier you  must be nice to him and to the girl (competitor) but resist company with her that is been nice to her means occasionally when you meet, you use the slightest opportunity to show you are not jealous that is if she know you were the one her man was dating but that does not mean you should be with her 24hrs of everyday

12)   The last thing you are supposed to do is to Analyze yourself. READ ALSO: Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage/Analyze Yourself Look deeply into what went wrong in your relationship and try to fix it. If it has to do with your personal character and attitude; you know what he likes so try as much as possible to erase those characters and make yourself a change person.

Conclusion: A lost relationship is difficult to build up, it can only be easy if your man still has love and interest in you and probably doesn’t like his new partner as much as he does to you, in that way you can win him back. So follow these key steps above with patience and you are sure to have a positive results and more also make him feel that you care about his new partner there’s a better and positive union between you both.

                            Franklin Nathaneal

                                    Writer