RELATIONSHIP: WHAT DO GUYS THINK OF A LADY WHO MAKES THE FIRST MOVE

 RELATIONSHIP: HOW DO GUYS DEFINE A LADY WHO MAKES THE FIRST MOVE

FIRST MOVE- LADY

INTRODUCTION: This is a topic most girls want to have an idea of and most guys want to know if their fellow guy loves it more than the way they do, they have this feeling that, as they are shy and not bold enough to make the first move, they will want their crush to make the first move to ease them of emotional thinking and sorting for ways to make the first move in which exaggerating is part of it. The actual truth is that most ladies likes to make the first move by asking for phone numbers, address, and possible wanting to know about him just as the guys do
, but in our society when such a lady do this they tag her a “spoilt brat” but as the society develops we now see reason to fight for whoever we love. As a matter of fact most guys love it when the girl makes the first move especially when he is so much in love with the girl, while some others see it the other way round, Now if you are girl and you are practically wondering if asking a guy out is a positive or negative attitude, it all depends on what you feel; my perspective is that if you truly have love for such person you can make that first move. In making that first move what does it actually make of you?

11)    IT SHOWS YOU ARE CONFIDENT OF YOURSELF: some guys love women who are confident of themselves, it actually means such a lady can fight for what she wants and believes in unlike been a coward. A confident woman is a courageous woman who can outrun challenges and break protocols and as much does not count on what people thinks about her feelings and actions as long as she is doing the right thing, this kind of women rarely lose what they love to their competitors and guys love such women.

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22)    THIS ACTUALLY TAKES PRESSURE OFF THE GUY: A guy who has been eager to talk to a lady but have this feeling his first approach might be rejected, or probably a shy person, when such a lady makes the first move, it takes the pressure and of been emotionally imbalance from the guy and actually tells the guy he is been loved. Anyone one that has ever had a crush knows what it would take to make your true feelings known and actually don’t know if it will reciprocated in likewise manner.

33)    IT MAKES THEM FEEL POSITIVE: In the actual sense, a guy making the first move actually means that he loves the girl and there is a possibility the girl doesn’t do same, so if the girl makes the first move then it shows that the girl is actually trying to share part of her feeling.

  In actual sense of it, there are so many guys who love this, have actually interacted with young men and they share their individual experience, some of them expressed themselves by saying they can think from morning to night on how to woo the lady and don’t be rejected, the fear of rejection is what always keep them from making the first move and if actually the girl show sign of interest then they can squeeze up themselves to make the first move and if actually the girl makes the first move, ahh they are all set and happy for the rest of the day and night. But not all guys feel the same some love it when girls make the first move while others feel negative about it.

IN SPITE OF THIS BIG REASON AND RELIEVE TO SOME, SEE WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT IT:

FIRST MOVE- MAN

11)    UNCONTROLLABLE FEELINGS: Some men believe any woman who makes the first move actually can’t control her feelings and feel she is the type that after getting married can still walk up to another guy for a relationship while she is still in a relationship with one.

22)    UNSATISFIED: Some men believe any girl or woman who makes the first move has a sexual life that is high, that is “high desire for sex (libido) and could do anything to have it, that’s why she can make the first move.

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33)    MINDSET: Some men still have this traditional thinking that men should always be the one to make that first move rather than waiting for the lady, they believed if you love a lady then go for her.

CONCLUSION:

This attitude of a lady making the first move shouldn’t actually make you loose your right as a man, in every relationship where the man is weaker and the lady has a stronger force is not all good relationship. Try and be bold enough to do your thing as men are suppose to do but in the aspect of ladies making the first move is not a bad attitude after all, she making the first move doesn’t actually mean she is a spoilt brat, sometimes any relationship where the woman makes the first move is actually the most lovely relationship of all and it also depend on how you go about it, you making the first move should not make people feel you are bad so keep your standard and make your impression on people positive rather than negative